• Sarah Bogdanski

5 Magnetic Ways of Being

Updated: Feb 8, 2020

NYC Life Coach

Did you ever meet someone that was easy to like or love? They had this ease and confidence about them, and they were happy and comfortable in their own skin?

You were attracted to them because there was something magnetic about them and it was obvious they loved their life - and themselves. Maybe you couldn't put your finger on what it was exactly they did, but you were just DRAWN to them.

Wondering if you've got that special something too?

If you are any one of the below ways of being, keep being it! You're exuding awesomeness, and it will be hard NOT to attract others and invite more people and love into your life. If you don't have any of these - take note and think about small ways to step into this direction if you want more positive people and love in your life.

1. You take care of yourself.

You care and take the time to dedicate to your health and wellbeing – physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. And when you meet someone, they get a solid version of you that will continue to improve. If you're not trying to be your best version of yourself, you make it difficult for people to want to be around you. It's tough to expect others to care for us if we aren't caring for ourselves because that sends the message that you don't value yourself. And if you don't value yourself, do you think people will believe you appreciate them or anything else? Probably not.

2. You "do you".

That's right, you have a busy schedule between your career, your hobbies, your friendships, family, and your YOU time. You're not waiting around for anyone to fill your schedule or add excitement – you already have that down on your own. Having your own things going on – like your guitar lessons on Sundays and your drinks with the girls on Wednesdays – are what makes you attractive and interesting to begin with! You have a lot to share with someone who comes along, and for the right person, you can add them in to your sweet, fulfilling life.

3. You exude positivity.

You have this energy about you – and you genuinely smile and radiate happiness because you love life! Aside from your huge grin and sparkle in your eyes, you laugh easily, listen and are fully present with others, and celebrate others' achievements and success whenever possible. You love lifting others up, helping someone out, and being there – even if it's just a minute or two – to make someone's day brighter.

4. You're grateful.

You're grateful for all the good things – and sure – even the bad because those things may have been a lesson. You know how to stop and smell the roses, and appreciate the little things and moments that create your days. Practicing gratitude shifts your mindset to a positive space – and you'll exude that energy that others will want a piece of as they come into contact with you.

5. You're In Love with yourself – all of it!

That's right. You know who you are, what your strengths are, areas for growth, and you still love yourself. You love your chipped tooth, the way you sneeze, and that random mole in that random spot. Because all these things – inside and out – are what makes you unique in this world, and oh so loveable. Others you come across will love all of it too – and when you are confident with your badass self – others will be attracted to that positive energy and be intrigued to get to know that loveable you better.

Can you think of other ways of being that invite others in? Share below!

#SelfLove #gratitude #Love #SelfCare #Wellness #Relationships #Attraction

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